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let me say this in a way you'll understand. our son, destiel johnlock who, ended up on the traffic side of tumblr and got "anon hate" from an 18-wheeler because you weren't fucking watching him

Donations have slowed down so much when medical emergencies have increased due to displacements, famine, and violence that is ongoing in Sudan!

Please show your support. Here is a family who you can help. Elaf Babiker and her family are Sudanese refugees who evacuated and rebuilt their lives in Egypt.

Her aunt collapsed on Christmas Eve and was rushed to the hospital. She was diagnosed with brain stem hematoma! This meant her brain bled! She was in intensive care, relying on the ventilator as she was unable to breathe on her own, but the doctors required $1,700 USD for her month long stay in the hospital. Otherwise, they will discontinue her treatment! So please donate and share! There is $637 USD left to go! You can match me. I have given $5, but you're more than welcome to give any amount! ! ! The last donation was made 12 days ago! ! !

$23,167 / $35,000 USD

$23,217/35,000

Only one donation in the last 13 days

Anthony Mackie: *Talks about raising his kids to be masculine which to him means respect, compassion, responsibility, protecting your family etc.*

Anthony Mackie: *Talks about how growing up in the 80s and 90s in the south you grow up misogynistic sexist and homophobic*

Anthony Mackie: My roommate was gay. I didn't know how to deal with that. My brother is gay. I didn't know how to deal with that. So being a MAN I used my art to better myself. I played Perry so that I could understand my brother better

Anthony Mackie:

A bunch of people online: He is clearly a homophobe alpha male type

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Look. I get seeing a headline and taking it a certain way. I get the kneejerk reaction to not read what someone says in good faith. But Mackie has been pretty open about a lot of things in his life. So you can find out pretty quickly how he feels about things and that he is teaching his kids non toxic masculinity.

Alsooo, this is important: There are plenty of masculinities that exist both in spite of and outside of patriarchy. There are plenty of indigenous cultures where patriarchy simply didn't exist. A part of liberation for women and queer people involves redefining, uprooting and reshaping masculinity. Masculinity is not in itself corrosive and bad but it's the type of masculinity that is taught that is the problem. Patriarchal masculinity is specifically the problem! Masculinities like Mackie's should be embraced and nurtured.

Schwarzenegger winning seemed like the most embarrassing thing that would ever happen in politics at the time and now heā€™s to the left of every elected Republican and a few Democrats and just makes videos going ā€œyoung men, my fadda was a Nazi and he was a contemptible loosahā€

.......I fucked up so bad.

I've been teaching Belphie not to jump on Pangur, cause she's old and arthritic and doesn't like it. and as part of my "training", I've been giving him a treat every times he stops his evil actions and trots over to me.

I thought I was training him to come when called. in actuality, I've been training him to bite Pangur. so now he'll jump on her, chew her ear, and then make bird-of-prey eye contact with me from across the room. and the worst thing is I'VE ALSO BEEN GIVING PANGUR A TREAT EACH TIME (so she doesn't feel left out). which means that she'll whimper pathetically from Belphie biting her, and then also make intense eye contact with me, because she's been conditioned to expect treats afterward.

I have accidentally made the most fucked up dynamic possible with both of these cats.

literally trained them both to perform seasons greasons. this is horrible

Sara is fundraising to help a young man afford surgery to save his eyesight. Please share and donate if you can!

Edit: changed paypal link because Sara had to switch to collecting funds on her personal account

$2,800 raised so far

$3,400/5,000

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