I'm tired of the limited and often subpar lesbian representation non lesbians expect us to settle with or even lap up.
Please can we have representation where the lesbians actually LIKE each other? I'm not talking sexual chemistry, lust, or even love. Can we please also make them fundamentally understand and like one another?
Didn't love watching a toxic and abusive oppressor x oppressed large power disparity lesbian relationship be endgame on screen. If it were presented as a tragedy, maybe it would be more digestible for me. But from Arcane context clues and interviews, the writers clearly wanted people to root for CaitVi. And so many non lesbians are getting defensive about the lesbians who refuse to eat this up!
I especially hated watching Vi, the masc presenting lesbian older sister that I loved and resonated with so much in season 1 repeatedly be beat or taken advantage of by characters around her and her own girlfriend: a girlfriend who showed no tangible signs of progress or even reflection by the end.
Didn't love seeing the treatment of the masc lesbian downgrade from a main character in season 1 to a plot device, occasional eye candy, or a supplement to other characters' arcs due to lack of writers' personal interest in her. (This attention shift was confirmed by recent creator's comments btw). Her season 2 writing was not trauma informed, lesbian community history informed, nor did it consistently make sense with the values and background the writers assigned to her in season one.
The writers were clearly trying to present that ending as bittersweet or hopeful. But it was hard watching a traumatized masc crawl back to an ultra rich, privileged, and recently fascist criminal girlfriend who never apologized, fundamentally does not understand who Vi is, and who took advantage of her loyalty... And then they had Vi call herself the dirt under Cait's fingernails at the ending. I know all the interpretations of that line and I don't care. Impact over intention. That line had negative connotations that rubbed many people the wrong way given their dynamic's power imbalance and Cait's arc.
Cait got her bittersweet ending and got Vi without having to earn it. But Vi was written to receive more suffering and trauma up until the end, and her "bittersweet ending" is being severed from her community with no family left, stuck uhauling in a blimp with the only person left in her life: a rich toxic girlfriend who only ever liked the idea of her?
It was not bittersweet knowing that Vi would continue to be microaggressed, misunderstood, or even abused by Cait and it was frustrating that it was framed as a happy ending for CaitVi. Frankly, Cait has been and would likely continue to be the main person benefitting from the relationship given the dynamic's unaddressed power imbalance.
Everything that happened to Vi in season 2 felt less like intentional, well written tragedy and more like suffering for the sake of having her suffer because writers didn't know what to do with her. Even their attempt at a bittersweet CaitVi ending was further suffering for Vi.
Vi please, while the mongoose isn't looking and is unarmed, RUN!!!