dead dove do not eat in practice

Um… hi chat… can- am I allowed here? I’m a persecutor headmate and I’m like.. holding a bunch of trauma for us? I think? Can I be here?

-🩷

I don’t see why you wouldn’t be! :)

Bring Back Chan's Room Petition

I made a post like a while ago about Chan's Room so I decided to start a petition. I'll link the post i made and the petition link below.

If you are a Stay and have been for years and loved Chan's Room, it'd be greatly appreciated if you could sign this and spread the link wherever you fan! I want Chan's room to come back and i bet a lot of other Stays would too.

Link to Petition: https://chng.it/dgWxmc5RW5

uhm personally! i dont think you should be spreading a petition.. i understand you miss chans room, i think we all do. but chan decided to stop doing chans room with a reason! we cant pressure / force him into coming back just because WE want him to come back :/ we have to respect him, his privacy and the fact that hes also a busy human being.

chan doesnt owe us anything, all we can do for now is support him no matter what and hope that maybe some day he'll bring chans room back. again, i get you miss chans room, so do i!! i loved watching it. but if you really really miss it you could rewatch old eps? or other skz content

have a nice day :)

Eunkwang announcing he has to take a break and have surgery because he injured himself but then ending the message with a cat kaomoji /ᐠ ◝ ˕ ◜マ Ⳋ 냥 and meow has to be the most on brand way for him to do it...

Give up!!!!!!

no one warns you how tedious working on everyone's pluralkit and simply plural is

- dave (he/they)

truth

I swear I felt my brain twist while I stared at this and tried to follow a particular segment.

That is SO COOL I’ve never seen one moving before!

Ohhh, three sided Mobius strip.

SEGMENTED 3D MOBIUS STRIP BABEY

hole

If you want to be plural you can just be plural

By that I mean, there are methods you can use to become plural, of course. But if you want to be plural, you probably already are plural. You don't have to figure out headmates or names or roles or origin or separation levels or communication or headspace or anything right away to claim that as your own. You can just be plural. You can sit with that label for as long as you want without taking any other steps. Being plural doesn't mean you have to have all the answers. It doesn't mean you need to know a certain amount about your system. It doesn't mean you have to take any actions beyond identifying as plural. You can just be plural. You will, probably, eventually take more steps – learn who your headmates are, learn who you are, learn how things work for you, learn who you all want to be and what you want to do moving forward. But you don't have to do any of that if it would be too much for you. You don't have to push yourself to have a place here. If you want to be plural, you can just be plural, and you don't need to do anything else. [PT: If you want to be plural, you can just be plural, and you don't need to do anything else. / end PT]

It's okay to be plural. It's okay to want to be plural. You are welcome here. Take a breath, don't push yourself, and congratulate yourself on making it this far. Sit with the plural label as long as you like, and when you're ready to move forward – or if you've decided it's not for you after all – there will be people there for you, ready to help if you need it. And if you never take any other steps, there will people there for you then, too. I hope being plural is a joyous experience for you, one that's all you've ever wanted and more <3

Okay so on the skz page they took the Truman post down to repost it because it had Hans tattoo showing right.. but these are GROWN MEN. And btw stays LOVE Hans tattoo's so with all this getting scolded bs is like annoying THEIR NEARING 30 BRUH LET THEM SHOW WHATEVER THEY PLEASE. Oh no he has tattoos.. big deal...?

The pics in context:

i don't think div1 really has a problem w ji's tattoos tbh, they're probably not showing it 'clearly' because they don't want the weird stays to actually copy the tattoo just because ji had it and he is someone who they like. regardless of the meanings, which really weighs down the actual meaning and thought that ji really wanted to convey, it might hold something close to his heart and if peo.ple just go straight up get them too to 'twin' with their idols... that's really a nono.

Copying his tattoos is so weird like I get you like him and the rest but doing that has got to be the MOST weirdest fan stuff I've seen, and I just read a comment that said a girl got the same tattoo as him and showed him on a fan call??

— I also know that Han would love to show his tattoos he said something (I think at the Japan show? I can't remember) about wanting to show his tattoos but they didn't let him cause he would get scolded But to me it's the fact there's some weird ass fans out there who do stuff like THAT.. The boy just wants to show shit and he can't 😭

"oh nice tattoo what inspired you??" - "Oh thanks I copied my Idol and made him uncomfortable 😍" girl bye you are NOT a stay

(I also despise stays who call themselves a fan when they are are so toxic, weird or just straight up problematic)

This. Right here

Know that this is who we are There ain't no last 'step out'

Happy 7th Anniversary, Stray Kids!

Okay so on the skz page they took the Truman post down to repost it because it had Hans tattoo showing right.. but these are GROWN MEN. And btw stays LOVE Hans tattoo's so with all this getting scolded bs is like annoying THEIR NEARING 30 BRUH LET THEM SHOW WHATEVER THEY PLEASE. Oh no he has tattoos.. big deal...?

The pics in context:

i don't think div1 really has a problem w ji's tattoos tbh, they're probably not showing it 'clearly' because they don't want the weird stays to actually copy the tattoo just because ji had it and he is someone who they like. regardless of the meanings, which really weighs down the actual meaning and thought that ji really wanted to convey, it might hold something close to his heart and if peo.ple just go straight up get them too to 'twin' with their idols... that's really a nono.

Copying his tattoos is so weird like I get you like him and the rest but doing that has got to be the MOST weirdest fan stuff I've seen, and I just read a comment that said a girl got the same tattoo as him and showed him on a fan call??

— I also know that Han would love to show his tattoos he said something (I think at the Japan show? I can't remember) about wanting to show his tattoos but they didn't let him cause he would get scolded But to me it's the fact there's some weird ass fans out there who do stuff like THAT.. The boy just wants to show shit and he can't 😭

"oh nice tattoo what inspired you??" - "Oh thanks I copied my Idol and made him uncomfortable 😍" girl bye you are NOT a stay

(I also despise stays who call themselves a fan when they are are so toxic, weird or just straight up problematic)

This. Right here

sigh

did it again

Guys stop putting "empathy/sympathy." They are not the same thing. Empathy is not "I care about this person," that's what sympathy is. Empathy is "I can understand this person's situation, see myself in their shoes, and experience their emotions as my own."

Empathy ≠ sympathy. They frequently co-exist but they are DIFFERENT.

Not having empathy doesn't mean I don't care about people, it means I can't understand their emotions or correctly imagine myself in their situation.

I can still care without grasping it.

People stop being stupid and misunderstanding what words mean challenge level impossible.

a poll for systems/plurals

do you ever feel like you're faking but in a 'this feels forced'/'these people are too unrealistic' way? e.g, you have a headmate who can speak a different language, but can't translate said language to you when asked? or because your brain is so exhausted from dissociating constantly, headmates personalities start to get weird and fuzzy and they say stuff they'd never do (to me, it feels like they're melting back into a singlet because my brain can't hold their personalities together)?

Secret fourth option: Sometimes

(meant to reblog this to here; using the same pfp has led me astray 😭)

OKAY TUMBLR. IT'S TIME TO SETTLE THIS ONCE AND FOR ALL.

Reblog this if you pronounce “.gif” as “GIF.”

NOT JIF,

GIF.

And here is the link for the opposite.

WE SHALL SEE WHICH ONE PREVAILS.

Important Announcement:

April Fools Day (April 1) is one week away. To that end, I just want it known now, well before the day, that this blog will NOT be posting any jump scares, fake announcements, freak-out posts, fake hackings, fake emergencies, fake news, and “gotcha!” stuff on April Fools Day. We’re staying safe and chill around here.

I’m honestly not into April Fools Day, really, unless the jokes are obvious and silly–like Rickrolls and Dad Jokes. Rickrolls and Dad Jokes are just traditional. 

Exactly this.  This blog will be safe, i absolutely promise you.