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Help my bestie get top surgery!
My best friend Ly is raising money for top surgery!! Please share and donate if you can!!
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Anonymous asked:
as someone who suffers from disordered eating (restrictive) and has done very questionable things to avoid hunger due to wanting to lose weight, how do you think people whose minds are wonky should go about dismantling the fear/gut reaction to fat bodies, I feel like a horrible person when I see someone fat and all I feel is a genuine fear of their bodies, I'm fine in the sense where I don't restrict nor do I feel the urge too, but I just feel like a bad person for not being able to see the beauty in fat people.
honestly? I don’t feel like answering this because your motivation to do better is coming from a place of guilt rather than any genuine care about fat people and how we are treated. this ask is similar to the last one I posted (although it’s about a week older). it reeks of entitlement. I’m not here to hold your hand because you feel guilty about your fatphobia. if you want to do better, you can figure it out without telling a fat person that you hate their body.
To be really blunt, anon, your disordered eating is not relevant to the moral imperative to treat fat people better. It really speaks to how little you’re actually invested in that, and how completely you’ve failed to actually think of fat people as human beings, that the action you’ve actually taken is to go to a fat person (and their audience) to say “your body is disgusting and scary to me, and I feel like a bad person because it’s just SO HARD to not be disgusted by you. actually, it’s so hard for me to not be afraid of your body that it’s pathological, so lowkey I’m looking for affirmation (from you) (who I am disgusted by) that I’m actually a good person. for feeling bad about how gross I think you are.”
just. what the fuck. these are thoughts you need to unpack with people who aren’t fat. did it occur to you at any point that many, many fat people struggle with restrictive eating? it has the same negative effects on our mental and physical health - like fucking up cognition and cardiovascular systems - with the difference being that our doctors, family, friends, partners encourage us to do it and even insist that we restrict more if we don’t become thin.
THANK YOU
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"it's all in your head" correct! unfortunately I am also in there
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autism will be an STD after i'm through with him
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Good Morning Krusty Krew
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The war is still going on more than 400 days of war!
Something that the human mind cannot imagine, but we are living it as a reality. Unfortunately, the days are getting more difficult day after day. Food and shelter are really starting to run out.
Help us before it's too late.
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I am legitimately so fucking sick of how normalized it is to sexually harass intersex people.
Look at this shit
The fucking like ratio. Why. Is it funny? Do people find it funny when we get sexually harassed? I've gotten this question a good 8 times.
This shit is so common
Perisex people find out we exist and they treat us like we only exist as sexual objects for them
It's so common that intersex teens online need to add disclaimers like this to their posts discussing being intersex, I've seen so many disclaimers similar to this on here as well as tik tok.
It just makes me so unbelievably sad that people do not respect us. They just don't. We're sexual objects or deformed freaks to most perisex people. It makes me so sad that we can't even talk about our lives online without being seen as walking fetish material.
And this happens irl as much as it happens online. In college settings, at queer bars, in queer spaces.
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you have to admit it: most if not all animals are very brave. they do a lot of things and dont always know whats going to happen. they have beautiful eternal souls because of this
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canada lynx voted the animal of all time. Boy why are you so paws
put those thigns away
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Tumblr is odd because you’ll see a mutual post something really profound like “the birds still sing for those who listen” and you see them 5 minutes later saying something like “need to be pegged.grilled cheese style”