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lilacs

@lilacs-echoing

he/she/it, 16, aroacespec genderfluid bi, type 1 diabetic

hii making an intro post now bc ive posted a lot of stuff

just call me lilac(s) i dont really care lmao but i dont like online strangers using my real name

a couple fun facts about me:

  • my interests might change a lot rn this is a lotf blog tho
  • i am a huge literature nerd and i will overanalyze
  • i dont like publicly disclosing my disorders on intros/bios if you want to know that gleam it from my reposts :3 or ask i guess?
  • one of my hobbies includes dressing myself up as a clown in my freetime
  • i used to play genshin and i mained amber mostly out of spite but also because i love her.
  • prog and extreme metal fan because the noises feel good on my brain but i listen to like all sorts of stuff like acid jazz, nu metal, city pop, synth pop, dad rock, so much shit
  • i might post my art and stuff however i do experience the horrors and sometimes it keeps me from drawing so dont expect me to finish art <3
  • i also write my own stuff it might be obvious from my posts but i dont write fanfiction. idk maybe if people appreciated my writing i would write fanfiction lmao
  • i will accept mutuals if i think ur cool however im trying not to make online friends. might change but for now im not giving out contact info just message me on here if you want to LMAO

PLEASE send asks im surprisingly not mean and i love talking <3 thank you!!

being the second child is so lame when your older brother has no fortunes to inherit or power to come into. all of my scheming younger brother tendencies are being completely wasted like it’s not even worth putting all my efforts into usurping him and taking his place as heir. it’s not even worth it

curious that you think I'm a bitch, considering the homunculus clone of you that I keep in my basement has never said something like that to me. could it simply be that the stresses of your daily life are making you irritable?

Anonymous asked:

Hello I wanna ask, is making sexual jokes about somebody to them without their consent count as sexual harassment? This happened to me recently someone joked about me impregnating someone and got graphic and it made me really uncomfortable especially since me and this person barely know each other. They didn't ask if it was ok at all they just continued even after I expressed discomfort. I think this is sexual harassment but I can't be sure. Sorry.

Hi, that's a really good question!

Often, yes. I think there are some exceptions but especially if you're talking about sexual jokes about someone to that someone without (or against) their consent, it often does fall under sexual harassment.

Your example definitely falls under that category. Especially since you expressed that you weren't comfortable with it!

I know its unfortunately normalized but joking about someone having sex (to their face, in particular) when they've said they're not okay with that really isn't a joke at all but even if it was, it's still fucked.

Whatever they were trying to do explicitly falls under harassment, you're correct and I'm sorry you had to deal with that. ❤

Lemme know if you have anymore questions, Anon! <3

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masculine ways to communicate

  • morning bitch can't wait to taste your nips tonight
  • send nudes or i'll kill myself
  • hi sweetheart have you ever heard midwest emo music? i have a 14 hour playlist we can listen to together
  • you sound crazy right now. you're making that up
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