an extra note, this post goes out the most to selfshippers of color who dont feel safe in what has been built as the community. many can relate to this post in a different way but i see it every day with my own eyes, and as i said some people benefit off of how the community is and some people have to fight for their peace every day. so yeah, you can just be in your own little bubble if thats how you find your peace. we cant fix how it is, with the way things are now, but we can protect ourselves and find spaces between each other. i’m not saying to ignore it all and stay ignorant, this is for the people who’ve tried to make their space and are tired of fighting for it. its okay, youll find your peace.