love in the time of corporate drama

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sonja ✵ 24 ✵ she/her & bi  ✵ 🇫🇮 ✵ self-ship sideblog

✵ i like/follow from abstractragedy and my ask box is always open!

✵ here's my f/o list. main f/o is one particular tom wambsgans shown above ↑ and unfortunately. he is all i post about....

✵ i post the occasional suggestive thing, so minors dni. otherwise i also block very liberally.

✵ expect lots of imagines, good old blorboposting and some art & fics every once in a while!

tomorrow i'm gonna be meeting up with the friend that confessed her feelings to me in january 👍🏻👍🏻 seeing her for the first time after nearly 5 months and a few vulnerable texts, an attempt at flirting and a half-made promise i will have to break 👍🏻👍🏻 i can't explain to her that i have no idea when i'll catch feelings for another person since at this point i'm technically in a relationship already and love the guy in my head so very much so i will just have to say sorry buddy i care for you but not like that...

The intimacy of shaving your f/o/cutting their hair… idk why but it makes me so somft;; the fact they clearly trust you so much not to mess it up or cut them w a straight razor if you use that… Especially with some that may lead dangerous lives. The physical closeness of it, maybe they hold your waist or back, or lean into your chest. Some of them can’t help but feel so relaxed and sleepy you need to keep talking to them otherwise they doze off lol

comfort characters should be normalized. not the whole "oh i love this character, i watch the show just to see them because they bring me comfort!" thing, cuz i think thats already normalized

comfort characters that you can imagine soothing you to sleep should be normalized. imo i lovee imagining my comfort character next to me as i walk to school, or as i fall asleep. i imagine them telling me that everything will be alright.

i think carrying your cc around in your headspace should be normalized. i like it when a character i like comments on things i do in real life. i like talking to them in my head.

PRETENDING YOUR BLORBO IS REAL AND INTERACTING WITH THEM SHOULD BE SOMETHING MORE PEOPLE DO!!! trust me, it is SO FUN!!!!!!

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Imagine your F/O being happy for the first time in a long time because of your presence in their life. That usual scowl or frown is replaced with a content smile and they’re at peace. They are talking about the things they love or the things they want to do. They have things to look forward to now and the future excites them. They say things they never would have said and do things they never would have done without you. They laugh and maybe even cry. They’re healing with you by their side and they feel so glad that you’re with them they can’t describe it.  All they can do is try to share that happiness with you.

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first kisses with f/os. those who have nothing to say because they're just in awe or those who end up stammering over their words because they can't believe they were finally able to kiss you! or maybe those f/os who act smooth and try to get ready to kiss you again while they have a chance! maybe even f/os who call you a dummy for kissing them but... ask you if its okay for another one. either way you should think about your first kiss with your f/o 🫶

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