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ash | genderfluid | they/them | queer content | fan fiction writer | artist | sapphic | marauders era enthusiast | fvk jk rowling | teenager/minor | if u are not a minor, dni pls
Introduction

Hey guys! I’m Ash. This is an LGBTQ+ and queer blog, on advice, my experience, funny queer stuff, mental health content, and more! I’m a genderfluid and sapphic person, so I hope I can answer and give whatever guidance and advice I can. Hopefully I can help, and stay safe guys! Love you <3 !!

Other Info
Ash 🖤 They/them preferred, but I use any :) Genderfluid 🩷🤍💜🖤💙 Teen (Minor!! If you aren’t, dni please!!) Artist (drawing, writing, etc.) Sapphic ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜 Fanfiction writer 📝 Marauders era fan, hates jkr ✨ DMs are open, I’m always here for you 💕 Taken by my beautiful gf <33

first 5 faceless emojis are how your summers gonna go

Magnus Archives fan I see

THIS IS SO FUNNY I'M SORRY

👍✊‼️✨🤛?????

👉🫵👏💀👍??????????

🇬🇧💗🌈🎊‼️

partying in england !!

📜🚵❤️🌈🦚

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN

❤️🙏🫶🕯️🟥

???????????????? something about love. and red

🔥🐄🍁❌👍

Um

❤👍🐛🍨🌸

🔫🐝👍🎨🌸

I guess I’m killing someone and painting a flower with their blood???

💔🫵💥🎉🩷

The partying finally got to me…

✨️💅❤️⚠️🥚

I don't remember ever using these emoticons. What does this mean.

I think Bill’s gonna make you lay an egg this summer

Not if I make him lay one first.

✨🌔🌸🏳️‍🌈🔪

ah yes ofc

be gay do crime

but with a hint of astrology

Not tagged but this looked fun lol

✨💫🔥🎵👍

I um

Fangirling over Wolfstar, Jegulus and music??

I mean it’s not wrong ig

⚠❤🦁✨🙏

Warning, Red Heart, Lion, Stars, Prayer.

Warning, a gay Gryffindor with Christian guilt? Sirius!?

(HC the Blacks being religious, because who doesn't like religious gay trauma, like I had, though not as shitty as his)

❤️✨🏳️‍🌈💀🙏

I’m gonna be gay and in love with my gf and then kill somebody and pray for forgiveness.

ah yes.

FOOD DISCOURSE: reblog with ur opinions on guacamole, olives, mango, hummus, tomatoes, and cannolis

guacamole is an incredible food and no other opinion will be tolerated

olives to death sentence immediately

mango i have no opinion on

hummus is gross minus when eaten with carrots

TOMATOES LOML

i am unable to form an opinion on.cannolis at this moment in time

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im making this into a tag game i need to know

Guacamole: Disgusting. No thank you

Olives: Awful vile things. They need to be eradicated from earth RN.

Mango: Amazing :DD

Hummus: Don’t care for it, not at all. Bleh

Tomatoes: Great :D

Cannolis: Never had it :/

I KNOW there’s more but I’m completely blanking rn 😔😔

Open tags

Guacamole: I like it! :D

Olives: bleh I’ve never eaten them but I tell everyone I don’t like em (something about them looks very unappetizing)

Mango: Sweet :)

Hummus: Never had it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Tomatoes: I only eat them when they’ve been cooked.

Cannolis: Had to look up what it is, it looks pretty good but otherwise I have no opinion here.

guacamole: burn to death please

olives: please die

mangoes: only dried ones, non dried ones are vomit inducing

hummus: eeeeeewwwww burn

tomatoes: they will make me puke

cannolis: absolutely amazing :) especially with caramel and chocolate

a lot of this is just texture bc I don’t like a lot of odd textured foods

guacamole: EW YUCK NO ONLY WITH SALT BUT EVEN THEN I CAN’T–oh, if they’re the ones from PR then never mind. The ones over there are so nice and creamy :3
olives: …I’m sorry, I can’t. How do ygs put those in martinis please burn
mangos: YESSSSS!! But not from the store, rather the tropical and fresh ones :D
hummus: Ehhhhh, not my thing tbh. can’t say i like it tho–
tomatoes: they taste so good on a hot summer day!! straight from the vine and into the mouth’s the best way to go!!
cannolis: …PEAK. Absolute PEAK. I haven’t had one in years but I SPEAK NO LIE WHEN I SAY THEY’RE AMAZING❗❗💥💥📢

Guacamole: I love it!! I don’t have it much, but I love how it tastes with chips!!

Olives: No. Absolutely not. I don’t like olives. I don’t understand either why people like putting it in their food.

Mangos: YES!!!! DOUBLE YES!!! TRIPLE YES!!!! MANGOS ARE PEAK!!!

Hummus: Meh. 🫤 Not my thing either.

Tomatoes: *Mwa* Magnicente~ 🤌 (I love them)

Cannolis: I don’t even know what cannolis is, which pretty much means I haven’t tasted it before. So, yeah.

bro- dude. Why u hating on olives so much? 🤨 guacamole: absolutely love it! Will take it over salsa any day

olive: i like em! I prefer black olives over green tho

mango: my Favorite fruit!!! We don’t have them often but the moment we do, it doesn’t last long. Also! As a kid, me and my siblings would always get the cans of mango juice when we went to the store. So ✨memories~✨™️

hummus: yummyyyyy… we don’t have them that often, but I love it! And the garlic ones? ✨Chefs kiss 🤌

tomato: yes! Yes!!! YESSS!!!!!! Tomato, ketchup? Give it. I don’t care!! I’m such a tomato gal, I love it!!! I also really like what Italians do with their tomatoes. Basil pesto, balsamic vinegar, pasta?!?!! Hands down the best thing ever. One of my all time favorite foods is bruschetta, which is tomato based. Basically anything Italian with tomatoes is an almost guaranteed win for my taste buds

cannoli: never tried it. So cant really say 🫤🤷‍♀️

and if you’re wondering

guac: would die for it to keep it in this world if it came to it

olive: idk im not a big olive person

mango: sooo sooo sooo good i eat the skin sometimes if im too lazy to cut it up

hummus: gross!! i do not like it

tomato: i like cherry tomatoes and ketchup and paste and stuff, but i dont reall ylike eating tomatoes whole

cannoli: never had it but it looks rlly rlly good but i dont want it know cuz i just had two cups of coffee and im sugared out teehee

wow thats the most moots ive tagged in a looong time

Guacamole: yes yes put it in my mouthhhh

olive: yummy in some circumstances. The flavor gets old

mango: delish please more

tomatoes: a miracle, yum yum yummm

hummus: OH MY GOD WHAT IS THIS MASTERPIECE PLEASE JUST STUFF NY FACE WITH THIS OH MY GOODNESS THIS MUST BE WHAT THEY EAT IN HEAVEN

cannoli: ew ew no the texture is death

Guacamole: HEAVEN

Olive: good shit good shit

Tomatoes: die in a hole (it’s the texture, they taste ok)

Humus: good shit good shit

Cannoli: FUCKING MARRY ME. FROM SHRESUS HIMSELF. HEAVEN X3

Guacamole: Good ig

Olive: No die

Tomatoes: Fuck off, no chance am I eating that shit

Hummus: Haven’t had it in a LOOOONG time

Cannoli: Haven’t had it

Guacamole: I hate it. I hate avocados in general; taste and texture.

Olives: I don’t like them by themselves, but I can tolerate them on pizzas or in salads.

Mango: I haven’t tried one before; no opinion.

Hummus: I don’t like the taste.

Tomatoes: Pretty good anywhere. I like them in sauce, as toppings, in salads. Would i eat a tomato by itself? No, but I wouldn’t die if I was forced to.

Cannolis: Depends on what is inside them. I know they’re normally stuffed with cheese (at least the OG from italy), but I’ve seen them stuffed with beef, vegetables, you name it. So depends.

Guacamole: Love it. The best. Amazing. Would eat it plain.

Olives: Nope. Nada. I am not an olive person, sorry.

Mango: THE BEST FRUIT EVER.

Hummus: Amazing, especially with pita.

Tomatoes: Not my thing. I don’t hate them, but I don’t love them.

Cannolis: generally not my thing, but not the worst.

tag game; fictional crushes!
"one day, you'll look back on all of your favorite characters across all fandoms and you'll realise- you have a type." -tumblr user i forgot the url of

Why not find it out now? List ten of your fictional crushes, and let the next person figure out your type!

1 annabeth chase 2 ethan nakamura

3 octavian (pjo) 4 leo valdez

5 reyna ramirez arellano

6 apollo [ToA] 7 gwen stacy [atsp]

8: 42- miles morales [atsp]

9 lavinia Asimov [toa] 10 hobie brown

~●☆HAVE FUN!☆●~

taglist:

@anyone who wants to, really!

Jason Todd Simon Snow

Tony the Tiger Barbara Gordon

Kwasi (Octonauts) Reyna (pjo)

Thalia Grace the 10th doctor

Amy Pond Amy Santiago

I know there's so many other people that I've forgotten, I'm sorry. Please don't hate me

Don't really know what your type is. T-T

1. Thalia Grace (pjo/hoo/toa)

2. Shadow milk cookie (crk)

3. Licorice cookie (crk)

4. Cosmo (DW)

5. Shelly (DW)

6. Sprout (DW)

7. Apollo/Lester (toa)

8. Reyna (hoo/toa)

9. Asta (black clover)

10. Yuno (black clover)

traumatized mfs with daddy issues who are either twinks or badass bitches (based on the three I know)

  1. Telemachus (EPIC)
  2. The guy from the Paper Man disney short
  3. Tim (Tim and Moby)
  4. Varl (HZD)
  5. Miles Morales (ATPV)
  6. Dexter Charming (EAH)
  7. Circe (EPIC)
  8. Hiro (BH6)
  9. Kuzko (Emperors new Groove)
  10. Sokka (ATLA)

smart and sarcastic lol

  1. aaron warner (shatter me)
  2. hiro (BH6)
  3. kenma (haikyuu)
  4. sokka (atla)
  5. leo valdez (pjo)
  6. azriel (acotar)
  7. ridoc gamlyn (fourth wing)
  8. keefe sencen (kotlc)
  9. vi (arcane)
  10. mor (acotar)

(Ima be honest I only know like three of these) its giving sarcastic who covers their pain with their sarcasm but also a badass 

  1. Mel (arcane)
  2. Barty Couch Jr (marauders)
  3. Rodrick Heffley (diary of a wimpy kid) -BUT THE OG MOVIE ONE
  4. Natalie (Yellowjackets)
  5. Sunset Shimmer (my little pony)
  6. Reyna Avila Ramírez-Arellano (heros of Olympus)
  7. Eddie Munson (stranger things)
  8. Damiano David (Singer- Måneskin)
  9. Patrick Verona (10 things I hate about you)
  10. Yelena Belova (Marvel)

OH FUCK IM SO GETTING EXPOSED. in no particular order:

1. nikolai lantsov, shadow and bone

2. zoya nazyalensky, shadow and bone

3. ...xaden riorson, fourth wing

4. tane/ead/sabran, priory of the orange tree. im torn

5. fanon james, marauders

6. lily, marauders

7. remus, marauders

8. hester or anadil from sge. im sorry i must

9. percy, pjo

10. annabeth. pjo

YEAH SURE WHATEVER THATS TECHNICALLY MORE THAN TEN AND SEVERAL ARE FROM THE SAME FANDOM BUT I WAS SIMULTANEOUSLY RUNNING OUT OF AND HAD TOO MANY IDEAS OK THIS WAS A CALLOUT POST. WHO DO I KNOW IN FANDOM

ooh wait also honourable mention that girl from xo kitty. the one who fake dated the guy i forget her name she was cute. also several characters from b99

ok um um um

LIV.

i cant.

it would be a SCARY list

here r a few tho

nest archeron from ACOTAR, manon blackbeak from TOG, inej from SOC, rhysand from ACOTAR, this is getting concerning so im stopping, sabran POTOT

gods i have so many

but oh well here's the top ones i can think of rn, in order of how hard ive crushed on them

  1. sirius black (fanon, marauders era)
  2. jude (the cruel prince)
  3. rohan (the grandest game)
  4. lily evans (fanon, marauders era)
  5. cardan greenbriar (the cruel prince)
  6. reyna avila ramírez-arellano (percy jackson)
  7. regulus black (fanon, marauders era)
  8. percy jackson (percy jackson)
  9. jameson hawthorne (the inheritance games)
  10. will solace (the sun and the star)

honorable mentions

11. leo valdez (heroes of olympus)

12. goldilocks (the land of stories)

13. ridoc gamlyn (fourth wing)

14. annabeth chase (percy jackson)

im probably gonna get called out so hard here lmao

alr tags:

I'm sorry hun; I don't know half of those characters well enough to diagnose you with a type. But with Regulus, Sirius, and Percy on there, I'm gonna say you like men with a lot of issues.

And damn, top 10? Okay, let's get this over with ig. (This is not in order of how I like them, just top ones I can think of)

  1. Giyuu Tomioka (Kimetsu No Yaiba)
  2. Mitsuri Kanroji (Kimetsu No Yaiba)
  3. Sirius Black (Harry Potter and Marauders Fandom)
  4. Nymphadora Tonks (Harry Potter)
  5. Venom (Venom Trilogy) [imagine what he could do with that tongue and those tentacles- I read too much fanfiction]
  6. Bucky Barnes (MCU)
  7. Sam Wilson (MCU)
  8. Loki (Thor series & Avengers) [I kinda lost the crush with the TV series]
  9. Logan Howlett (X-Men)
  10. Padmé Amidala (Star Wars)

So what's my type y'all?

I don’t know the ones from Kimestsu No Yaiba, but I’d say you like badasses in girls, and men who have trauma.

In NO particular order:

  • Catra (She-Ra)
  • Hermione Granger (Harry Potter)
  • Luna Lovegood (Harry Potter)
  • Verosika (Helluva Boss)
  • Ahsoka Tano (Clone Wars, Star Wars)
  • Bellatrix Lestrange (Harry Potter)
  • Gwen Stacy (Spiderverse)
  • Amity Blight (Owl House)
  • Double Trouble (She-Ra)
  • Raine (Owl House)

You know what’s so crazy? Trans people are taking their lives, having their rights stripped away, and being told they’re not normal, but it’s fine because the only reason these people transition and face insane amounts of hate and violence is to assault people in bathrooms and to transition your kids.

Wild how the world works.

Stereotypes

Stereotypes are not always bad. I love laughing with my queer friends about how gay I am because I have Doc Martens and love crystals. However, stereotypes cross the line when you are using them in an all or nothing type of way, like "All lesbians are mascs." or "No bisexuals are monogamous." It alienates the people who aren't the stereotype, and hurts people who are.

Stop generalizing diverse and beautifully complex communities.

Coming Out

I'm already out to everyone on this blog - it's kinda my whole thing, but I figured I would share my labels and what they mean for me.

Genderfluid - My gender fluidity is something I've struggled with for a long time, and took a while for me to find a label that fits. I experience a lot of shifts in my gender expression and identity, and always have. A good quote from 7yo me to describe my gender is "Sometimes I feel like a boy, and sometimes I feel like a girl!" but now including more gender identities.

Lesbian/Sapphic - You might be thinking, wait, what? This person just said they weren't a girl, and now they're saying they are a lesbian? And yes, I am. For me, lesbian means a non-man who is attracted to other non-men. (Just for me, I'm aware others are different.) I am generally seen as a woman in society, and really feel no attraction to men. I'm aware there are other labels for this, but I mostly vibe with lesbian and/or sapphic.

Non-Binary - Yes, I am a part of the non-binary spectrum. Yes, I do identify as non-binary. No, that is not the only label I use to identify myself. No, I am not only non-binary, I also have the capacity to identify as multiple genders, and I just use this label as a generalization of myself.

Trans - I'm not a transgender person in the sense of FtM or MtF. I'm somebody under the trans umbrella, and so I use this term in the sense of saying that I am not a cisgender individual. I'm aware I'm not what many people consider trans.

Queer - Because I identify with many labels, I sometimes just call myself queer, though I understand if others don't like the label because of how it has been used towards LGBTQ+ people before.

That's mostly it!

I’ve seen a lot of posts on my dash tonight about users who are threatening suicide, with other Tumblr members posting in effort to try to get ahold of them. I think you all should see this:

IF THERE IS EVER A TUMBLR USER WHO HAS POSTED A GOOD-BYE MESSAGE, SUICIDE NOTE, VIDEO, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT, PLEASE FOLLOW THIS POST.

1. Scroll to the top of your dashboard.

2. See the circular question mark icon at the top? It’s the third one over from your home symbol. Click on that, and a screen similar to the one in the picture will come up.

3. Where you can type in questions, the box with the magnifying glass at the top, type in the word “suicide.”

4. Click on the first link that shows up. It should say, “Pass the URL of the blog on to us.”

5. Type in the user’s URL and tell Tumblr admin that the user is contemplating suicide and has posted a message indicating that they are going through with it or will be attempting. Hit send! Tumblr administration will perform a number of actions to contact the user and take the necessary steps to prevent the suicide.

TUMBLR: THIS COULD SAVE A USER’S LIFE. PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE SUICIDE THREATS.

Reblog this to keep other users aware. Suicide isn’t a joke, and neither is someone’s life. If you didn’t know this, someone else may not, either. Pass it on.

This post is old, but you are STILL ABLE TO GET AHOLD OF TUMBLR STAFF in an emergency: this just happened to me recently. All you have to do is email SUPPORT@TUMBLR.COM and they will handle the situation for you. Thanks for passing this along, guys!! xo Kate

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