Usted Vs Tu
Usted Vs Tu
Usted Vs Tu
There are situations in which we are compelled to address people in a more respectful
manner than when speaking to family or friends. Unlike English, Spanish allows us to
express different levels of formality, with the use of TÚ and USTED, for instance. These
two words mean YOU, but one is more formal than the other. Distinguishing when is
proper to use one or the other is essential for communicating in Spanish. So, this time
we are going to help you learn when to use them.
USTED
Usted is the translation of You that Spanish speakers use in formal contexts. It
corresponds to the situations in which you would normally use Sir, Madam or Miss to
address the person to whom you are talking. Thus, in general terms you use Usted when
speaking to:
An older person
Señor, pase usted primero.
Children
Hola, pequeñita. ¿Cómo te llamas tú?
Pets
Tú sí que estás sucio. Vamos bañarte, Rocky
When in doubt
If you are not sure whether to refer to someone using usted or tú, it would be wise to
remember that it is more likely to offend somebody by being informal than the
opposite. So, when in doubt, you’d better use usted.
In any case, you can always ask: ¿Nos podemos tutear? Or ¿Le puedo tutear? Which
means using tú instead of usted.
Children Hola, pequeñita. ¿Cómo te llamas tú?
Pets Tú sí que estás sucio. Vamos bañarte,
Rocky.
Work colleagues and business associates Oye, tú que sabes más de esto, ¿me
you’re friendly with puedes ayudar con el informe?
Friends and family members (unless you are Mamá, ¿tú has visto mi cartera?
in a country where people use usted with
older people even if they are family
members)
Young people, especially if they are your Hola, tú. ¿Qué hay de nuevo?
peers
When you insult somebody (it would be odd Si tú eres más bruto que un burro
to maintain formality when you are insulting
someone)