happy holidays! i hope this time of year isn't too stressful for you and that youre enjoying the end of the year.
i want to get a little bit sappy and say that i am very happy that i joined selfship spaces this year. even if im not doing a lot per se, the people here are some of the nicest i got to see online and ive never been so comfortable inside a community as i have been here i think :D no shame about my interests, just vibes.
i promised myself to get out of my shell a bit more next year and directly interact more, comment more, be more open about my f/os etc. etc. but we will see how that goes!
thank you for accepting me and always being so kind! <3
falling in love AGAIN with an f/o after they havent been on your mind for a long time is such a beatiful feeling.
its like they wait for you to return, overjoyed with luck that your feelings for them havent faded.
they still love you just like they used to, happy to spend time with you just like back then <3
I see a lot of posts about f/o's with talkative readers but here's one for my quiet friends: your f/o doesn't mind that you don't talk a lot, no matter the reason. they understand you aren't mad at them, or upset, they know that you're just not the biggest talker and that's ok! they'd be happy to just have you listen, or sit in silence together if that's what you prefer.
“all of my f/os hang out and are best friends!”
no. all of my f/os hate each other and if I ever put them in the same room they would battle royale it out for my hand in marriage
what are you and your f/o dressing up as for halloween? and if you aren't fans of dressing up: what costume would you like to see them in? 👀
Putting little candies in my f/os’ pockets without them noticing so they have a sweet surprise for later
Imagine helping your f/o dry off and get snuggly after getting caught in the rain, or vice versa. Maybe you both got caught in the rain
imagine ur f/o who is taller/bigger than u sitting in ur lap. bonus points if they’re awkward asf
I wish to lounge upon a fictional man’s chest and have him pet my head whilst whispering how much he loves me
