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The entitlement of US Vietnam vets is so fucking wild because, like, on top of everything else they lost the war! These people will stand tall and demand you recognize the “sacrifices” they made for your “freedom,” as though they didn’t suffer a humiliating military defeat. Talk about participation trophies!

The nature of service work in the US is that someone will frequently walk up to you and say “Hello, I shot every Vietnamese child I could see and still lost the war. Please give me everything for free now? 🥺” and if you do the decent thing and tell them to kill themselves you get fired

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Mom, I want to start hrt so, so bad, but I’m scared. I’m not out at work, or to my extended family… what do I tell them when I end up looking different? Will it scare them, or get me in trouble? It’s the only thing holding me back :(

Ok so here's the thing, most people will not fuckin notice right away. just start. tackle how to bring it up later. especially if we're talking e cuz estrogen takes time to have an effect. there are people who are on hrt for up to a year and their family's never notice cuz they just dont see it as feminizing. now of course, if you wanna start dressing more your gender or something then yeah it'll be come obvi but im telling you. start the hrt, work on what to say as you go.

as for what to say "Haha I'm actually a girl/boy, please call me x"

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I have a research background in weight stigma and I currently work in mental health, often with LGBTQ+ clients.

I've met nonbinary people who struggle with disordered eating because they only ever see androgyny depicted as featureless thinness.

I've met trans women who struggle with disordered eating because they've internalized the idea that girls are meant to be thin, dainty, and delicate.

I've men trans men who struggle with disordered eating, because they feel women are allowed to be soft/curvy but men need to be muscular or thin and flat.

So many trans people are convinced that weight loss is the key to appearing as their desired gender, even when they want radically different gender presentations.

The societal idealization of thinness and fatphobia falsely invades and derails people's idea of what their "ideal body" should look like.

The social effects of privileging thinness are so damaging. Like, it's hard enough to deviate from expected gender roles and binary sexuality but now fat people have to do it on hard mode

Shoujo Kakumei Utena, by Chiho Saito Nokemono to Hanayome, by Asumiko Nakamura Mawaru Penguindrum, by Lily Hoshino Yuri Kuma Arashi, by Akiko Morishima

In September 2017, Ikuhara had an entire retrospective book published about him: Kunihiko Ikuhara: Revolutionary Girl Utena, Mawaru Penguindrum, Yuri Bear Storm … Our Revolution and Survival Strategy

It included new art from the people Ikuhara had worked with, including these four gorgeous full color images. My cleaning skills and options have expanded a TON since I scanned it though, so here are brand new copies!

the thing about being nonbinary is that you really do start to forget that other people have such strict walls around what is and isn’t allowed for genders. i thought we all agreed that we made that up. could you climb out of the cave real quick and feel the sunshine for a minute.

Fucking wild to be teaching about Rosa Parks at the same time as a trans woman in Florida does an act of civil disobedience to use a women's restroom in the state capitol

As far as I know, she is the first woman arrested bc of this law. The law requires that the trans person be warned to leave the bathroom by a state official, and then if they stay they are guilty of trespassing after a warning.

So like, me, my gf, others just piss and nobody asks or tells, but this young woman sent a statement about the law to over 100 FL lawmakers so they would know she was coming, the cops were ready for her, she brought a reporter and went in anyway and spent the night in a men's jail. She is out on bail, and is hoping this will inspire change of the law. But if found guilty, and the law is upheld as constitutional, then she could spend up to 60 days in a mens county jail.

Seriously, this is extremely Rosa Parks coded. Good looking, religious college girl. It's the whole playbook. She also added this selfie.

I support her and hope this goes as well as it can.

Shoutout to trans women for being the only ones to do something actually politically radical with the recent trend of girlcore catholicism

by the way, notice the ubiquity of the stars and stripes and red maga hats and "stop the steal" for Pro-Yoon rallies. I have to reiterate, over and over, that the right-wing, from the far-right to the center right, in East Asia is joined at the hip with the United States and actively seek the occupational military force's active intervention when politics do not go their way. You cannot, as a yank, do this song and dance about "ohh South Korea/Japan is so reactionary" when the reason for that is the occupational force that's been around for 80 years.

Notice the amount of stars and stripes for the Pro-Yoon rally

and the lack of the, here for the Anti-Yoon rally. Also of note here is the lone rainbow anti-discrimiantion sign at the Anti-Yoon rally. The United States and its flag is symbolic against social progress and equality world wide.

Help a Homeless Refugee Trans Woman Get Permanent Housing

I have been homeless since my suicide attempt in January 2024 (so, 14 months) and I live in the worst hotel in the world, that has a shower that electrocutes me and a floor that is always sticky no matter what. If you could smell this place you would kill yourself.

Long story short, now that I'm documented, I'm grounded in this overpriced city for at least a couple weeks for medical reasons. But after that I'm going to be looking for an apartment, and I need tumblr's help both to be alive until then and also to do everything that entails.

I am a homeless refugee who has no support from friends or family.

ko-fi/paypal link -- this link accepts visa, mastercard, and paypal.

9/800$

69/800$

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an anon thinks I should spend less money on booze so I'm opening it up to democracy

Sally just became a big sister to her baby brother Mohammed. Their mother Laila @laylaayman-blog2 has been fundraising trying to support their family through the awful conditions in Gaza, but it is hard for her to keep promoting her cause while taking care of a newborn, and donations have slowed as a result. She needs our help to share her campaign!

Please consider donating what you can, no amount is too small, and share if you cannot donate! Everything helps to get this campaign moving again, so that Laila can provide Sally and Mohammed with their basic needs!

Vetted by @bilal-salah0 , @90-ghost , @a-shade-of-blue , and @dlxxv-vetted-donations

if anyone’s wondering, yes, this was initiated by the official bds movement that originated the main 6 boycotts (the one with HP/ahava/siemens/puma/etc), because microsoft directly supports the genocide, as in their AI services are being used by the IOF to commit the genocide

this includes microsoft owned publishers like blizzard/activision

A teenage boy is in danger of losing his father!

Due to the war in gaza Omar has lost his mother and his siblings, all he has left is his father, who has been in critical condition for months.

He needs surgery to have one of his kidneys removed, and he will need dialysis every day

For this he needs $1150, please find it in your heart to contribute even $5, Omar is terrified to be alone in the world.

Donate here through paypal, please leave a note specifying it's for omar, as the account owner is helping multiple gazans with donations

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He still needs $1080!

There is still $1070, please do whatever you can this is very urgent

$810 remaining! His fathers heart has stopped multiple times!

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